As much as you love your kids, sometimes it's nice to have some grown-ups only time. This couple certainly thought so when they decided to make their special day child-free.
The groom's sister wasn't too keen on leaving her little ones out of the wedding though, and decided to turn up to the event with kids in tow regardless. Her husband disagreed, but her mother sided with her.
Taking to a popular online forum for mums, mumsnet, the woman described the experience:
"So wedding arrives, the eldest child really didn’t want to walk down the aisle but managed it. Not a squeak out of the baby. Arrived at the reception. My husband and children were separated from me and actually put into an orangery type thing attached to the main room," said the mum.
"They then sat in silence for two hours just speaking with the kids. No alcohol could be served in this veranda thing."
"Both my mum and I were in tears. My dad wanted to say something to my brother but we didn’t let him. My husband went upstairs with kids and stayed there all night not letting anyone relieve him."
"He is completely pissed off with me saying he wanted to punch the arsey brother-in-law. He is saying to just leave it but I want to talk to my brother. Do people think this was my fault? We are actually still in the hotel trying to have a holiday," she concluded.
Mums on the forum were quick to comment saying she should have repected her brother's wishes to have a kid-free wedding.
One said: "So you insisted the kids came to a wedding where they didn't want kids?
"Your husband was right, the kids should have stayed at home. Not your or your mum's place to dictate how the bride and groom have their wedding.
"It might be annoying and they would have had to accept it if you couldn't have gone due to childcare but that's their issue.
"Seems most of the upset has come from this insistence..."
"Why did you have to insist on bringing your children when they didn't want any? You're sounding like the unreasonable one."
One mum pointed out that they should 'salvage' their sibling relationship.
"Your brother should have made it clear - no children. But having conceded defeat, he should have made you all welcome and didn’t.
"It is their wedding day, what is done is done. Be kind, be forgiving and focus entirely on the positives of the day if you are to salvage your relationship with your brother and his new wife."
One mum did side with the woman though, saying she had experienced something similar at her own wedding: "I wanted a child-free wedding, however, some people brought their kids out of necessity etc. I did not lose my head over it and had an amazing wedding day. Your brother sounds like a bit of a tool."
Some also thought excluding kids from a wedding is 'vile':
"I do not understand how people can want a child-free wedding when they have children of their own or nieces and nephews. Like they are second-class family because they are kids! It's a vile thing to do! "Having said that, your brother has JUST got married, leave it be now and let him enjoy his 'honeymoon period'."
So what do you think? Was the mum right to bring her kids?